Ok since I can't figure out the whole networking issue, I decided to take a break from it all together, I have been using the basic install with 1.04 and now 1.05 installed that's it, I own all the packs, but to save myself the time of worring who might want to look at my original file from the problem i didn't add them, that way I didn't need to worry about what they might have vs what I used in my level.
HOWEVER after reinstalling 1.00 then upgrading 1.05 and then finally installing all of the packs (6-7 including the sprites) and then starting FPSC i noticed that the splash screen now reads version 1.03 not .05 I've even even downloaded the .03 patch so is there a specific order you need to install the pack in relation so the patch?
Stupid people are like Slinkies, it's fun to watch them fall down stairs. And some times you need to give them a push.