Pozag,
Firstly, welcome to the forum. I hope you find it a friendly and useful experience.
While I have heard some stories of this type of issue, I can assure you that most transactions go off without a problem. TGC manually confirms all payment transactions, and that normally takes up to a few days, depending on where the weekend falls. After that, if I remember correctly - it has been some years since I purchased the product - you get the e-mail confirmation and download instructions. It seems like there were two emails, but again I can't be sure.
It may take a few days to get a response from order support because yes, this company is a very small group of passionate geniuses, but I assure you that it will be corrected and well worth the wait.
Until then, there is a wealth of information and content on the forum which may be of interest to you. I feel your pain, I wanted to jump right into it before I even got it, but no one here can speed the process. Only order support can help.
Brian.