Like everyone else said, just show people dark basic, and even if noone is interested in coding there is definitely someone out there who does something computer-related, I have one friend that I thought knew nothing about computers, until I discovered she loved animating...
if your real-life friends fail you, feel free to start a team request here, if it's in the relevant board and you have a lot of the design planned out, you will find people will be willing to help and contribute. I started a thread in Game Design for openfps, and people helped me flesh out the design before I started a thread here. And, one year later, here I am, Openfps has code from over twenty contributors, six of which are currently working on various modules, and I feel pretty confident about the project.

Actually, a few of the people I've met online have turned out to be pretty cool people, it's nice knowing people who share the same interests with you and have just as much, if not more technical knowledge...