Quote: "I’ve worked as an educator now for a few years and I can tell its poor parenting. Just an fYI to all the parents in the world, we are not babysitters and we cannot/will not teach your kids right/wrong. We are simply there to teach them basic Math/English etc. Maybe if parents would stop thinking of as a second parent, we would see better behaved kids."
This is where I would disagree with you 99%. That 1% is because I agree that we're not babysitters.
My current school's Vision Statement:
To develop competent, responsible citizens for the future
I'll even go to the
New Basics Project (undertaken by Education Queensland, and as I currently work in Queensland it's easiest for me to access now) and take one of the Productive Pedagogies:
Recognition of difference
We want to ensure that students know about and value a range of cultures, create positive human relationships, respect individuals, and help to create a sense of community.
Education is much more than basic maths/english/science/history etc and to focus solely on that would be a disservice to the children you work with.
How would you create a competent, responsible citizen if you never discussed (and I'll be incredibly broad here) right and wrong? How can you help someone create positive human relationships or to respect inviduals if you never take the time to discuss right and wrong? Topics like this naturally occur everyday within the school environment with stealing and bullying being the two that instantly jump to mind.
Quote: " we cannot/will not teach your kids right/wrong"
Not only do we have time to do such things but we
must do such things. There is so much more to education than simply the facts and figures that so many people think is all we do and it's really disheartening to see what you wrote above.
Quote: "Maybe if parents would stop thinking of as a second parent, we would see better behaved kids."
I'll talk about this from a primary school perspective here. Outside of their immediate family, a teacher is who a primary school aged child spends most of their time with. Now
for some students, where their parents both work full time it's possible that you spend more time
interacting with that child than their parents do on a daily basis. So yes even though you are not that child's parent you certainly have to take some of the responsibility in teaching that child about more than simply facts and figures. Even if you're (and not referencing you here old_school) a terrible teacher your students will still look up to you and begin to emulate you.
If a parent is not teaching their child right from wrong, and a teacher isn't teaching their child right from wrong. Who is?
ADDITIONAL
I see you posted while I was typing, I'm a slow typer.
This:
Quote: "Some prefer to spend their time working late hours,"
Do people really prefer to work late hours or do they do it so they can afford to live? It's no good being at home with your kids all the time if you can't afford the roof over their head, their clothes or food.