You CAN add ActiveX controls to VB.Net. I don't have Visual Studio on the computer I'm using right now, but if I remember correctly there's a menu item called 'Add reference' on the Projects menu. Click on that, and select COM from the dialog appears. If your license for Winsock is valid, it should be includable.
But then, as CattleRustler said, the question is whether you should. You have the same functionality in the System socket namespace.
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