Not marriage, just a 5 year together ring
Anyway, still cost a big load xD ( actually, it wasn\'t \"that\" expensive, I'm just really out of money after buying a MSI 660ti PE and a new PS3 after my old one died

)
Edit: Also, after reading some more information, I found out that the Zalman sadly will hit my RAM heatsinks, apparantly the fan that's above the RAM sticks is able to touch it, even when the heatsink isn't. Anyway, that leaves me with something apparantly even better:
The Noctua NH-D14:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16835608018
With the tasty chocolate brown casing... painted black xD
Together with some new Arctic MX2 ( my old arctic silver 5 tube has died on my latest venture to a friends pc

) and a fan controller, though I'm still searching for one I can actually buy in holland. Computer stores kinda have a limited collection of items outside of the basic components of a PC.