I agree woth Disco Stu, this retro dancer is right, if you don't want something to be picked at, like
'I got a secret'
'What?'
'Not your business'
Peoples comments aren't getting to you are they...cos if they are you're like my sister, she did 3 years of college 2 years of uni, went onto to the Computer Arts forum and they told her she needs her own style and they're too sketchy, and shes lost confidence, so what someone kicks you down, stand up again and try, if they kick you again, try harder to stay up, once your stay up you can kick them down later...see a good metaphor of fighting, and thats not because I just got home from Karate