http://www.4dblue.com/gallery.html
4D blue - im not sure how similar this one is to 3DS never used it just thought i would give some options.
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http://www.cbmodelpro.com/download.html[/href]
CB Modeler - this one i can guarantee is nothing like 3DS but i was told its not difficult to pick up. (by a friend) its in beta it has a 15 day download until you register but registration is free. this one i would say is similar to zbrush or mud box in the way you model (but i would still suggest downloading and trying it. since its only like 12 MBs
you already know about milkShape(this is one i would suggest)
and then
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wings3D - this is one i would highly suggest it has no animation ability and is only good for modeling but it has a large amount of tools and its very powerful.
(if you have some money and are a student i would HIGHLY suggest looking into Cinema 4D. its extremely powerful in all front and has two built into coding languages and a sort of coding but more drag and drop kind of coding language) its regular price is $1300 but the student edition is $100. it has all the capability of 3ds but things are named differently... i learned that using 3DS tutorials with it... (there is a cinema 4D demo. it just has the basic cinema 4D (without hair mograph and all that fun stuff) so basically the modeler and animator. im fairly sure it doesn't have a time limit but im not sure on its saving ability and stuff)
all except cinema 4D are free.
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that's a small list of modelers you could look at.
ok and now onto your texture.....lol....
over all i think the metal looks pretty strange. almost not even like metal more like a spray painted plastic. the wood had the detail of wood but i would have to say to red/orange. (that general color) by that i mean make it darker.