I think realism is fine for simulators, and realism was the big thing when graphics were making the 2d to 3d transition.
However, as pointed out by others above, realism doesn't gaurantee fun.
That is where the game play comes into the picture.
As Nomad Soul pointed out, realism is all about visuals and sound.
That is because seeing is believing and we need to believe in order to make fantasy seem like reality, just like movies making people cry.
That is another reason I prefer older games that are less realistic, because there is a clear distinction between fantasy and reality.
So, the game doesn't get the blame for real life events by some anti-violence crusader.
Quote: "Am I the only one here "
No Plystire, you are not the only one.
LOL
Now you can get rid of that "The one and only" sig.