Quote: "a friend just told me about all this, so i'm changing what I said, I think the reason 'people are against you' is because you give em a reason to be, lighten up and not let them have a reason and they'll leave you alone and treat you as an equal, I've known people to be extreme on here but not extreme enough to attack people who are friends with someone they're annoyed with"
Yes, I'm sure your "friend" understands all of the facts too.
Tell ya what, how about you actually go back to the earliest forum posts and see just how much of a reason I gave people back then.
Fine you think I'm a Jerk now who does nothing but give people reason to hate me. Fact is you can't make someone hate you, they do that on thier own. How you act upon that hatred is your own option.
I hate a number of people right now, all from this commmunity. I don't hate people easily either.
Yet how often do you see me actually attacking them. How often do you see me putting them down each and every damn time they post something. How often do you see me using past events in any argument I'm in just to try and be nasty?
You won't see that because despite me being an opinionated, I'm not a nasty person. Most peoples view of me aren't thier own, they're other peoples.
Next time you think of how my attitude around here might be a lil out of line, just think what you've seen in the past year... is a fraction of the crap I've had thrown at me for over 3years. So yeah forgive me if I'm not just a smidge bitter about how this community treats me.