Bad news
99% chance my mother's tumor is malignant. It is not nearly as topical as they originally thought, upon further investigation they discovered it's quite intertwined with her frontal lobe. They will most likely do surgery on Tuesday, where they will confirm if it's malignant or not. The doctor was brutally honest and said to expect the worst.
Either way, since they have discovered that it's pretty intertwined, they have warned us that it has done some damage and removing it will add a risk of more damage. Her memory has been affected, some of her cognitive functions are a lot slower. Removal of the tumor may cause her to change personality even more, not be able to remember some things, maker her easily confused.
No talk of what treatments yet (it could still be benign, after all), but I would suspect chemo/radiation therapy. I don't know how early they caught it after all because to be that intertwined it must have been there a while. Her memory didn't seem affected until late last week though, so maybe it was caught fairly early.
I may have to give up my Presidency as I doubt I'll be on here much this summer, or year, or maybe even longer. I will check in periodically but I will be spending most of my time with my mom. Those who have facebook, feel free to try to find me if you want to stay updated and keep in touch - just look for facebook.com/yodamanjer and you should find me (Jeremy Gardner).
I feel completely numb, helpless, and out of hope. What if they say she's got two years left? 1 year? Six months? The stupid mind keeps trying to sort it out, and I have no idea.
TheComet, Clonkex, and Dar13, if you guys want to continue our Binary Pixel project without me, please feel free to do so. Life is pretty much giving me the middle finger right now and I'm not going to be very productive for a while.
So, Clonkex, name your VP as I am officially going to turn over my Presidency because of these circumstances. Email a mod with a link to this post and they will see that I did indeed write these words, that you're not just trying to take over.
Thank you all for the support, and I seriously hope to come back with good news in a few days.
Official Forum President from June 20th, 2015 - June 20th, 2016 (when my successor is elected, whomever that may be!).